It’s About Learning To Live

You do not learn to live in school. One learns to live based on one’s fall, one’s mistakes, one’s shortcomings… one’s goals? To be happy and enjoy every day.

But why is it so hard to learn to live?

Learning to live means being accepting

Throughout one’s life, there will be something that one finds extremely difficult: acceptance. Acceptance is something that begins with oneself and which one then exhibits to others.

But in order to accept others, one must first accept oneself. And it’s not always that easy.

Accepting oneself means that one loves and values ​​oneself in spite of one’s faults and shortcomings. Accept that you are not perfect, that you have had defeat, and that they have helped you to become a better person – you should never be embarrassed about it.

Once this is done, one can start accepting other people, which is even harder.

One has to accept that people will come into one’s life and leave it again completely by themselves. They will lie to one, fail one, betray the trust one has in them.

All of this is a part of life. And in order to learn to live, you have to accept it. If you do not do that, then you will end up fighting against everything, which will be useless.

Things keep happening because there is one thing that is completely out of one’s reach: changing people.

Tomorrow is a new day

We would be lying if we said that life would only be bright and colorful. For the truth is that there will be many times of total darkness.

But learning to live also means stopping doing everything so dramatically. For sometimes one can see things as being more problematic than they really are.

Not everything is so terrible. The biggest problem is that one’s emotions amplify things, so that in the end one sees everything as a sign of the doom of the earth.

There have undoubtedly been many times where one has looked back and thought “it was not so bad!” But in that moment, you saw everything as something really awful.

Because of all this, learning to live also means not exaggerating certain situations that one might think are the doom of the earth, even though they are actually temporary, and later one will see them as more experience.

So what do we recommend? That one enjoys the present, both the positive and the negative. And more than anything else, we recommend that you learn to live with both.

The bad times are also beneficial and can be a turning point where one considers how one lives life and how one can change it. It is not the downfall of the earth: it is the beginning of a new path.

Enjoy and appreciate the moment

Another important thing that one will have to do in order to learn to live life is to enjoy the moment and appreciate what one has right now better.

Time goes by so fast, and you may become so focused on something that you do not really enjoy life. That’s a big mistake!

This does not mean that you should neglect your obligations. Of course, it is true that you have work and responsibilities – much of your time is “busy.”

But every day you should give yourself a moment, no matter how short it is.

You think you do not really have time to do it because you can not get it planned. It is easier to fall into a form of laziness and chaos that causes one to waste time rather than enjoy it.

We recommend: Be yourself and be happy

Do you want to start spending some time on yourself today? Do something every day that you enjoy: Spend some free time with your children, go for a walk, relax, enjoy a hobby… but do not let the days pass one by one without any meaning.

As you can see, learning to live life is a process. And it will last a lifetime, because you never stop learning. Besides that, there are things that one will find out through experiences as the years go by.

Life is beautiful, because even though there will be moments of darkness, there is also a lot of light.

Enjoy every day and keep learning about life. It constantly teaches you something.

What is the most valuable thing you have learned today?