You Have The Right To Open A New “account ” In Your Life
Sometimes it comes easy, sometimes it’s hard, but it’s always helpful. Opening a new “account” in life can be the solution to your problems now.
Your heart may be open to it, but the brain can be very resistant to change.
This includes anything that requires you to leave your comfort zone, or get out of a routine, habit or a particular context – this can be interpreted by your brain as a threat.
It is the elemental way of the brain to guarantee your survival that it will always fill you with fear and insecurity, and whisper “do not, do not let the things around you change.”
However, when one is able to confront this natural and biological instinct, everything changes.
Eventually, your mind will be enriched by the lessons you learn, and your brain will benefit from the wonderful step that includes receiving other stimuli that can bring you happiness.
In today’s article, we want to invite you to reflect on your right to do this simple thing: start over.
To create a new account, it must be “cleaned”
Changes do not come in a linear march based on a given situation.
You do not have to start with your roots, and look for other regions or places to start over.
- The best thing you can do is promote change in your life by gathering new internal strengths that can help you “clear out” the things you dislike, those that are no longer relevant, and those that which does not enrich you or which slows down your personal development.
- You can start with your own home: remove everything that belongs to a stage in your life that you do not like.
- Get rid of papers, clothes you no longer use, memories that annoy you or take up too much space in relation to how little they serve you.
- Open your windows and let new winds blow over you while you clean.
- Then comes the bravest and most important part. Deeply consider what else can be left out of your life.
- Maybe you need to change your routine, maybe you need to stay away from certain people or break a few ties…
Then reassess your situation.
Appreciate the void, consider the changes and focus on your own personality
When you clean your home in depth, you are probably wondering how many useless things you have accumulated, and wondering how much light is now radiating from every corner after you have removed all that dust, debris or broken objects.
- You feel a very comforting serenity and everything is fine now.
- Not only have you put things aside that were no longer useful to you. You have also moved away from people who do not bring you anything and have even caused you pain.
- There are those who immediately start reuniting with new people when they reach this stage. They quickly create new relationships and begin a whole range of new experiences.
- This is not the right way to go about it. When you put a “new account” into practice, you need to be focused on your own self-care, so it is therefore important that you spend time on reflection.
- You need to appreciate the vacuum after you have cleaned your home, the places where there was once a person who now follows a different path.
In this space you are yourself and you must meet yourself again, appreciate your loneliness and unite with it.
The changes on the outside can make you feel different: a stronger person
If the simple fact that wanting a change is already a sign of courage, you have achieved this courage.
Sometimes you are not aware of it, but there is a seed of resilience inside you.
Moreover, creation requires a few drops of determination, a pinch of strength, and a few spoonfuls of intuition.
Once you have opened a new account, you will feel proud of yourself, and have a feeling or belief that you have taken control of your life. This is gratifying and something you should enjoy.
A new account and a new smile: It’s time to decorate your life
New life, new smiles. The work was all worth it, even if you acknowledge that it has taken a long time to get to where you are now. Everything is wonderful, because now it’s just the essence of you. Now it’s just you in all your magic.
It’s time to “decorate” your life, and here are some simple tips to help you:
- Decorate your life with people who value you for who you are, with all your virtues and flaws.
- Let your heart reach people who know how to give and receive happiness.
- Surround yourself with mature, fun friendships that have a solution to every problem, not a problem for every solution.
Allow yourself to reach the opportunities you have always deserved and that you did not dare to reach. Be receptive to what life wants to bring you and what you like, what you dream about and identify with.